It is not about being petulant or rude, it’s about being confident (comfortable in your own skin.) I meet women in Medellin by just living my life.Every day I see gorgeous women walking up and down the street.Imagine, our hands are on each other’s bodies before even knowing each other’s names.More often than not I’m not even interested in talking to the girl; I just want to dance and have fun. Amazingly, when I do that women are more attracted than when I start talking to them while dancing.Seeing beautiful women here is so common that Colombian men don’t even turn to look, it’s ridiculous.I’ve been here 5 years and I’m still floored at some of the women in my gym!
I have lived my entire life, barring the past 5 years of course, in Southern California.Medellin women are beautiful, and word is spreading pretty much around the world. I had to learn everything from experience, and it’s been a blast. When I first arrived here, there wasn’t yet a complete guide to dating paisa women.Many guys who come to Colombia cannot pick up girls in their own native language let alone in Spanish and some even have the audacity to say that the women here are just “gold diggers” or “too difficult” and that is not accurate at all.
Here in Medellin you do NOT need to play that game.
At first glance Medellin women do not perceive me as a foreigner due to the way I look.