You may eventually be giving ultimatums, only to be put off or given false promises.
You may find yourself stood up when various situations arise with his family that prevent him from keeping dates.
Safe, yet in danger Being in love creates a sense of safety, yet the foundation for this safety feels, at it’s core, shaky.
You know he could decide at any time to stop the affair and try to work on the marriage, or that his wife or someone else can find out and blow his cover.
You can feel this, yet are afraid it would cause more damage to their feelings about you if they knew.Intimate, but isolated You have a wonderful newfound closeness with this man that you may not have had for a very long time.However, as time goes by he becomes one of the few people you can be intimate with because you cannot share what is most important for you in your life with most others.You find yourself forgoing activities that you used to enjoy that might make you unavailable to him should he suddenly have time to see you.
The silence of the phone can feel like the bars of this prison.
Powerful, yet powerless You may feel very powerful in your ability to attract a man who is married, maybe with family and cause him to betray this family.