Seek outside protection and don’t allow the stalker to freeze your life with fears and worries.
It's likely that as he's telling you over coffee that he has a busy day ahead and can't spend more time with you, you'll be hitting yourself wishing you had listened to your gut last night.At the first sign of danger, be firm and let them know you are not interested.A stalker might get delusional and imagine you’re playing games or that your “No” means yes.If someone seems over-eager, shares too much, or seems way too interested for a normal person, try to not get their hopes up.
Be careful and don’t give out your phone numbers or social media contacts.
So be very clear and down allow a room for misinterpretations. Let everyone know this particular person is not welcomed in your life.