But once every fortnight or so she tells Peter, 48, a company director, that she's meeting a (well-briefed) girlfriend for dinner.
Instead she goes to a motel room to see her lover, Michael, also 46, a medical sales rep whom she met at a conference.
Silver provides online dating services, including online personals and photographs of men and women.
I could have worn them every day but after 13 years of greying M&S pants and flesh-coloured bras Peter would have been rightly suspicious.
Date is designed to provide you with a necessary support and space where you could meet and date younger women.