If he's 22 years old and wears glasses and weighs 108 pounds and says "for some reason people tend to think I'm a Twink," feign surprise and say "men are so into labels." Then help him lift his martini glass to his lips and move on.
Five: If you're over thirty and at least four years older than your date, don't be surprised if he calls you Daddy.
Allow yourself time to balance physical attraction with other important elements like basic communication and similar outlooks and interests. You can't take a relationship faster than the pace at which BOTH guys are comfortable.
And if you're the one who's less interested, let the other guy know as quickly and tactfully as possible.
So whether he's a Bear, Twink, Twunk, Cub, Daddy, Dilf, Otter, Chub, Gym Rat, Gym Bunny, or any of the other zillion names we give one another, only address him in generic terms, like handsome, sexy, hung.It's also more than likely a sign that he still lives with his on-again off-again ex.