The only way you’re going to be able to do that is if you’re dating them.Maybe there’s someone who’s been one your mind while you read this post; a girl who, now that I mention it, has been on your mind a fair bit lately; a beautiful, holy woman that you haven’t yet had the courage to pursue.
Part of this seriousness, I think, can be attributed to the belief that you give part of your heart to every person you date.
Or she doesn’t, and that’s rough, but at least now there is clarity in the relationship.
Too often, I think this area of our lives is defined by indecision.
That kind of dating shouldn’t have this fear of losing part of ourselves hanging over it.
It should just be a healthy, enjoyable way of determining whether you want to start a romantic relationship with someone.You can just be thinking, I’d like to get to know this girl better, I should ask her on a date. We consider relationships for weeks or even months before making a move.