Look around your room, art included, and look for themes. Get creative and embed happy twosomes around your bedroom. Love on this zone and place something symbolic here, or better yet, two somethings.A few years back I kept meeting men with whom I would really connect, only to learn that they were in an open relationship. Sets of three were abound, which makes sense as a single mama with two sons. As Aristotle stated, “the chief forms of beauty are order and symmetry.” Symmetry is pleasing to the eye, as well as to the heart. To close, try this exercise with me to uncover your ‘Love Corner.’ Walk thru the doorway of your bedroom and go to the back right corner. But more on this in Feng Shui & Dating, Part Two: The Love Corner, coming soon.Basing a person’s skill in bed on their appearance is absolutely useless.Looks alone cannot determine whether a guy can be good in bed.Even if they’re nice to you, it does not mean that they have enough experience to actually deem themselves experts in the bedroom.Some men are shy and aloof, which begs the question as to whether they have the necessary tools to actually learn how to please a woman.Struggling with insomnia, nightmares or infidelity? Take down the mirror(s) facing your bed, or cover at night if removal is not an option. Okay, so your dream lover is chilling in bed, leaning against that solid wall and reading you erotic poetry: but where will they hang their hat?If dreamy weekends together sound nice, give your guy or gal a place to hang up a few items.
I ask them: “How is your lover supposed to get in and out? If a lamp is on one, a matching lamp should be on the other.
Now that I’m dating again post-divorce, I lost the guest room but kept the adage, and apply it thru the lens of romance. As you apply the following steps, infuse your intentions into each action.